What if you could finally untangle the daily overload that comes with feeding your child ?

You weren’t meant to dread mealtimes or feel like you’re failing at something that’s supposed to come naturally.

I know what it’s like to hold your breath at every meal, wondering if your child will eat more than three bites—or anything at all.

Hi, I’m Brenda, your calm-in-the-midst-of-chaos feeding therapist.

Maybe you dread mealtimes too—not because you don’t care, but because you care so much.

You pack food before every outing “just in case.”

You plan vacations around what your child might tolerate.

You worry about nutrition, judgment, and that quiet fear in the back of your mind: Is this my fault? Why can’t I figure this out?

I’ve talked to so many parents like you—loving, dedicated, and doing everything you know how to do—and still stuck in a feeding journey that feels isolating and confusing.

When I first worked in an early intervention center, I had the same questions you probably have: What’s really going on beneath the surface? What will actually help?


So I studied oral motor skills, sensory processing, positioning, play-based learning—each one offered a valuable piece of the puzzle.

And here’s the truth I discovered:
No strategy works until a child feels safe.

Trust and connection aren’t extras—they’re everything.

They’re what unlock curiosity, reduce power struggles, and allow all those puzzle pieces to finally click into place.

That realization changed everything for me—
and it’s the heart of how I support families like yours today. ❤️

When we work together, you’ll gain…

  • A clear understanding of what’s really behind your child’s feeding challenges—so you can stop second-guessing yourself.

  • Confidence to lead mealtimes with calm, connection, and strategies that actually work for your child.

  • Relief from daily power struggles and rigid routines that leave everyone exhausted.

  • Stronger connection with your child, built through trust—not pressure.

  • Mealtimes that feel doable (and even enjoyable)—at home, at restaurants, or on vacation.

You

don’t

have

to

keep

dreading

mealtime.

There’s a better way—one that honors your child, supports your family, and brings more peace to your day.

Let’s take the next step together.

Find the right support for you:

Listen to what people are saying…

“We used to worry so much about food choices and felt stuck in a constant struggle over meals. Now, watching him independently choose foods from the pantry—even ones he’d once avoided—has been such a proud moment for us. Seeing his growing flexibility and confidence around food has truly brought a sense of peace and freedom to our family.”
- Hope B.

“Before working with Brenda, mealtimes and social settings were often a challenge for G. But now, seeing her enjoy social activities, interact cheerfully with other kids, and even explore foods she used to avoid has been such a heartwarming transformation. It’s incredible to see her confidence and joy shine through again!
- Kristy J.

Tune in for real conversations, real transformations

Learn about the behind the scenes work to build a one-of-a-kind signature feeding program and get a sneak peek into The Eating with EASE Academy.

Lindsay and I discuss how fostering connection at mealtimes can support moms in transforming feeding struggles into peaceful family moments.

Brenda Chilstrom, OTR/L is a pediatric occupational therapist and feeding specialist with over 30 years of experience working with children and families in a variety of settings. Brenda was recently chosen as the Master Clinician of the year at the Birth-Three Annual Conference 2025 hosted by Educational Resources, Inc. She resides in beautiful Naples, FL where she runs her successful business, That Makes Sense OT.